Hi,
I have an old GSD (Bear) who we adopted about 5 years ago, we have never really been able to work out his age, but we think he's probably about 10/11 years old. He is an incredibly gentle dog, who seems to have an old soul. He has never shown any aggression, except once when he did go for a man (who I later found out was the not-very-nice ex-boyfriend of his previous owner).
A year or so later we adopted a Collie (Blue). A very nervous dog, who instantly got on very well with Bear - although he would always beat Bear to the ball and beat him out the door first, which I took to be just a game - they both seemed to enjoy the race!
A couple of years later we adopted another GSD (Bailey) - who's the youngest of the three. All of them got on.
Recently we've just got a Cocker Spaniel (Lady) - but she's not the issue here, so I'll leave it at that.
All the dogs recognise Bear as the Alpha male dog - although I've never seen him do anything dominating to take on this role. However, Bailey and Blue seem to be fighting for the number 2 role. We quickly realised that Bailey seemed to have taken the number 2 role, and we started to feed him before Blue etc. However, signs of dominance seemed to appear. Blue would want to run out of the door first (still looked like a game!), but then Bailey would let him go out in order to get a nip at his tail/back. Blue loves playing with balls, and Bailey doesn't really have an interest in "fetch" but would bark at Blue for playing it, and then let Blue get the ball so that Bailey had an excuse to go for Blue. (Is this making sense so far?).
Blue is constantly chewing at Bailey's scruff - again, it's looking like he wants to play with him. Sometimes Bailey plays, other times he just stands there and let's Blue continue. I have started to put a stop to this behaviour anyway.
We have another dog who comes to play a couple of times a week - a lovable Goldendoodle who wouldn't hurt a fly. Blue gets jealous of Buster (the Goldendoodle) and Bailey playing - at least I think so.
Twice, when Buster has been here and playing with Bailey, Blue and Bailey have got into a fight. Another time I left the dogs in the Boot room to dry off after a walk, and 2 minutes later Bailey and Blue were fighting again - and Bailey was still sitting in the dog bed that I'd left him in. They've got into 2 or 3 fights when just being out in the garden, playing, I assume.
Unfortunately I have never seen the beginning of the fights (I promise I do watch them and look after them, but they seem to only do this when I'm not around).
My opinion is that they're both as bad as each other. Bailey let's Blue do naughty things (ie. go out the door first) solely so he can be justified in having a go at Blue. Blue is like an annoying little goading child. Wanting to push things too far.
The problem is that there has been a lot of blood and puncture wounds and ripped necks. I'm worried Bailey will kill Blue shortly.
I don't know if I'm meant to embrace this 2nd in line hierarchy or treat them as equals (but under me, obviously).
I have 4 cats, all are left alone by the dogs. The puppy (Lady) annoys Blue and Bear, and Bailey is completely in love with her.
Can anyone offer me some help? I am at a loss - and my husband now thinks it would be kinder to find Blue a new home with no other dogs as he believes that Blue is the issue.
Just so you know - we all (husband, myself and my daughter) love the dogs and cats to distraction.
Many thanks
Laura